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# Okay, I am totally in love with this guy, and we actually went out for a...

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Okay, I am totally in love with this guy, and we actually went out for a while. then he couldn't go out with me anymore because he still had feelings for this other girl he dated. I understand this, but I want to make him realize that my time is short--I'm moving soon. I don't want him to feel bad that he had his chance, but I don't wanna miss my chance with him either. Please help!?

Let me explain the Bus Theory to you. You were on the bus, and had one helluva ride. The bus was suddenly re-routed, and you got kicked to the curb; the bus drove away.

Now you're standing on the bus stop all alone. Alas! What's that in the distance? could it be? YES! It's another bus!

The moral of this story is, he is NOT the last man alive. PUH-LEEZE Understand this: He has moved on, you're moving soon. You and he had a chance together, it didn't work. He is who he wants to be with. Can we accept this and get on with our life?

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