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# I have been dating my friend for 5 mos and I care about him alot. He is very...

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I have been dating my friend for 5 mos and I care about him alot. He is very jealous and insecure. He always feels like I am going to leave him. What should I do?

What should you do? What can you do except remind your boyfriend, tell your boyfriend --- that you care about him, and that you have no immediate plans to leave him.

The jealousy and insecurities are his issues --- not yours. I have a feeling that if he doesn't stop accusing you he just might find himself missing a good thing --- once you're gone.

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