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# I'm a 29 year old female and have fallen in love with a 19 year old guy. He's...

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I'm a 29 year old female and have fallen in love with a 19 year old guy. He's very mature and we have a lot in common. I want to pursue a serious relationship with him, but the age difference at times makes me uncomfortable. Help! Be honest, I can take it! Thanks!

I bet it does make you uncomfortable, Chelsea the Molester!

Now you know damned well I will NOT condone adults falling in love with children. I don't care how mature you say he is, or how much you say you have in common with him --- you are an adult, he is a child.

If you really love this guy, you'll leave him alone for the next two years until he becomes of age.

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