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# I have lost my best friend after starting to date someone that she had liked...

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I have lost my best friend after starting to date someone that she had liked for ages. We have not spoken for over a month and although I am happy with my new boyfriend, I miss her friendship very much and regret what I have done.

She does not want to make it up. What can I do? I am so depressed and it is causing strain on my new relationship.

In this life there are actions that we take called choices . You chose to be with the male that she liked. Miss Gyrl, you knew she liked him, yet you chose to be with him anyway. Obviously he was feelin' you, not her --- it ain't your fault.

You made the choice, deal with it. Your ex-friend will never be able to trust you again, so even if the two of you are able to make up in the future, your friendship will never be the same.

You made the bed --- good night.

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