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# I am 23 years old, my boyfriend is 33. I truly love him, and we have talked...

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I am 23 years old, my boyfriend is 33. I truly love him, and we have talked about marriage some day soon. My only problem is that I never told him that I am a virgin. I guess you can say in school I really didn't have a main boyfriend, cause everyone was doing it but me. I suppose my reason for this was because I never wanted to have a baby, or an STD.

I truly love this man, and I'm afraid of what might happen if I broke down and told him. What should I do? And, do you think that I'm crazy for waiting so long?

First of all, let me congratulate you! Hell no you're not crazy for saving you precious virginity.

Gyrlfriend, when the time is right, tell him. He will be happy to know that the woman he may marry in the near future --- saved herself for him.

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