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I have this boyfriend who is urging me to have sex when I am not ready! I love him but he says he will leave me if I don't! Help!

Do not have sex with him. He isn't interested in you, he's interested in sex. I'll bet he has told you "if you don't give it to me, I'll get it somewhere else." Let his ass do just that.

Don't wait for him to leave you, leave him. Your body is not a bargaining chip.

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