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Me and my man have been going together for 5 months. When I tell Him that I love him he would say it back but it sounds like he doesn't mean it.

I hardly see him. Should I dump him. What should I do?

You should sloooow down. 5 months isn't a long time. He may tell you he loves you just to shut you up.

You hardly ever see him. Now that's a problem. I don't suggest dumping him immediately, give him a chance to explain himself. If his explanation sounds shady, it probably is. If the communication and trust is totally gone, kick his ass to the curb.

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