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# I met this guy at a new year's eve party five years ago. Since then I've had...

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I met this guy at a new year's eve party five years ago. Since then I've had this crush on him, and it doesn't want to go away. I don't know him at all. I went to his webpage a few weeks ago and sent him an email.

It has been two weeks and he hasn't replied. He has a girlfriend and I don't whether I should keep emailing him or not. Please help me out here.

Five years ago? Girlfriend, he probably doesn't even remember you! A five year crush on someone you don't know isn't a crush, it's an obsession.

You can't get that kind of help from Aalize, but please --- get help somewhere.

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