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# I am really interested in this guy but he has a girlfriend but she is far...

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I am really interested in this guy but he has a girlfriend but she is far away. I am really crazy about him and there is nothing I wouldn't do for him if he's the one for me.

I have so many mixed emotions. Should I pursue our friendship or keep away and get over him?

Keep away. You're not interested in a friendship with him, you want a relationship with him.

If a relationship is what you want, why settle for just a friendship? Then you'd be secretly hoping that he'll ask you out, want to date you, etc...

Close the Hope Chest. It ain't worth it. Remember, it's not only about who you like --- it's also about who --- likes you.

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