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Be Gentle! I'm a newly wed and miserable!!! My husband is not interested in a damn thing I have to say. I've tried to explain what I need and want out of him but he thinks I'm naggy. He says he doesn't care if I walk out, but yet he tells me he loves me.

Now how does that sound to you? Baby, I love you, but I don't care if you walk out on me. Two key words, Don't care. Always remember, anyone can say anything. Read the actions. It's not what is said, it's what is done.

If he isn't interested in listening to you and is insensitive to your needs and wants, you may want to do one of two things.

Speak to a Marriage Counselor Speak to a Divorce Attorney

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