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# I happen to like this girl at school. The thing is I don't really know her...

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I happen to like this girl at school. The thing is I don't really know her and she doesn't know me. I wrote her an email and told her who I was and that I would like to get to know her, then if things worked out maybe we could go out.

Well she read it and I guess she read it wrong because she said no, she wouldn't go out with me because she does not know me and something about she is busy.

I didn't hear that from her, I heard it from one of my friends that is a close friend of hers. All I want to do is get to know her before I think about asking her out but it seems that she doesn't want to do that either. I am able to handle a girlfriend who has a busy schedule. What should I do, I really like this girl?!

Spare me the sob story. She read the e-mail right, she's not interested in you. Welcome to rejection, baby! You've been given the ultimate brush off, and you need to move on.

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