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I was friends with this guy, then every weekend we started messing around. We went pretty far, (no sex) but he didn't really talk to me at school, or on the phone.

About 2 weeks ago he "asked me out," but I haven't seen him since. When I call him he never calls back. My friends say I should lose him, but I want to give him a chance. What do you think?

Give him a chance to do what?! He asked you out (Supposedly. Did he *actually* ask you out, or did you misinterpret his words?) then vanished into thin air. You call him, he ignores your calls. Duh!

I repeat: Give him a chance to do what?!

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